It’s Not About “What” You Do | Ep.6

Show notes
At the end of the day, “how” you’re caring for yourself as you move through this world is so much more important than “what” you’re doing. As we step out of the frazzled transition of daylight savings, this episode is a comforting reminder that you are the gift you’re meant to bring to this planet. And that your “how,” fully felt, can shift the axis of this world towards healing.
IN THIS EPISODE:
(02:18) – Why this knowledge is the key to healing, and an antidote to urgency
(09:35) – The pathway to *how* and why it’s especially important for sensitives & empaths
(18:02) – What near death experiences teach us about this mantra, and our true soul mission
(23:42) – A guided practice for tuning into the unique *how* that you are here to embody
EPISODE LINKS AND MENTIONS
Tell Me About Your Pain, from Curable (with Alan Gordon and Alon Ziv)
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Oh Asia! Thank you, thank you! I have followed you for many years now. This topic really struck home for me. I have been deep in my healing journey for many years now. I have healed from Chronic pain and illness through the modality of CRM therapy (extremely powerful) Lately I’ve been stuck….Wondering “What” I am here to do… ?During my healing journey I’ve learned herbalism and foraging and growing my herbs and filling an apothecary and, and, and….(the forever straight A good girl). I used to post content and made a couple reels and started getting attention (trauma survivor trying not to be seen) I stopped making content because people started asking me What, What are you selling? What are your offerings? What are you going to do with all of your skills…. It was intimidating and I got stuck in a loop thinking about The what?? What am I doing? What business should I be building? Am I a clinical herbalist? And I a maker of a product line? Am I teacher? So much pressure to figure out what am I supposed to be doing?? Your episode reminded me that I don’t want to be a producer of what others expect from me. I loved creating content and learning for me, sharing was “How” I shared my joy… I stopped doing that because I was being seen. I see I still need some deprogramming from the perfectionism and the supposed to be doing, that is obvious. More importantly you remind me of HOW I love to create, to be and show up for me. I don’t Have to produce in order to feel complete.( part of our collective cultural programming)
Anyhow I just want to tell you how impactful your words are and how you showing up and sharing helps me find my how. Thank you again!
Hey Sara! I’m Shannon from Asia’s team. Thank you so much for taking the time to share this reflection with Asia—I know she’ll relate so deeply to your experience, and be absolutely delighted this episode could help affirm the value of your “how.” Reading your story, I get the sense of a movement back into attunement with yourself, living from the inside out—and it’s so heartening. Thank you for being here, and warmest wishes as you renegotiate these programs and agreements! I hope you can find so much joy in following your own heart’s desires for being <3